Can I change the locks on the house?
This question is the converse of the one we asked last week (Should I Move Out?). The general answer is unless you have a Court Order granting you exclusive possession of the home, then you should not change the locks.
If you do change the locks without a Court Order giving you possession of the home, not only will the Judge not be happy about it, if your spouse were to "break in" he or she would not be in violation of the law. Changing the locks when you don't have Court ordered possession of the home is generally not a good idea and is a good way to escalate the case to a more adversarial (and therefore more expensive) posture. If you are thinking about doing so, you should talk to your lawyer about it first.
IF THE EX-HUSBAND LIVE IN THE HOME,UNTIL HE DECIDE TO SELL IT DOES THE EX-WIFE HAVE A RIGHT TO SHOW UP WHEN EVER SHE WANTS TO.
It depends. Is the divorce already final? If so, what does the divorce decree say about it? If not, is there any interim or pre-trial orders that have been issued? If there are no Orders in effect that speak to this issue and the parties are still married, then in Alabama, each party would have equal rights to the house. But, because you refer to his "ex-wife" I am assuming a Divorce Decree has been entered. If so, it should have awarded possession of the house to one party or the other pending the sale. If the husband was awarded exclusive possession pending the sale, then the ex-wife would not be entitled to enter at will.
It depends. Is the divorce already final? If so, what does the divorce decree say about it? If not, is there any interim or pre-trial orders that have been issued? If there are no Orders in effect that speak to this issue and the parties are still married, then in Alabama, each party would have equal rights to the house. But, because you refer to his "ex-wife" I am assuming a Divorce Decree has been entered. If so, it should have awarded possession of the house to one party or the other pending the sale. If the husband was awarded exclusive possession pending the sale, then the ex-wife would not be entitled to enter at will.