Traps to avoid when things get ugly
MSNBC has posted an article on traps to avoid if things get ugly. It is called Covering Your Assets in a Divorce. It generally contains good advice, but here's my favorite quote: If you want to be smart about divorce, do your homework and keep your emotions out of it. Splitting is rough enough without the anger.
More smart, less emotion. I know it is easy to say and hard to do, but it is the key to reducing the pain and expense of divorce.